The most important work I do is centered around shame.
As probably many of you know I come from a very conservative upbringing and the feelings of shame, guilt and judgement around sexuality accompanied me throughout my teen and late into my 20s. I had to dig deep, shine some light into these shadows and question / release any beliefs that were not serving me prior to allowing myself to feel free and aligned with my sexual force inside.
Just today I was holding space for a beautiful client of mine who’s come to me to embrace her sexual force, to fall in love with herself and unleash the inner goddess.
The sensual energy is so powerful, exquisite and incredibly moving. It makes us feel alive, creative, invigorated and empowered. Often, the reason why we’re not in touch with our pleasure is due to a variety of blockages that come from your upbringing – early childhood wounding, shame / guilt associated with sexuality, feeling unworthy of love and pleasure, inability to fully accept and love ourselves as we are and not as the world wants us to be.
Want to know what drives me to write this blog, why I’m in the Healing & Sexuality field and published Alice in PolyLand Erotic book? Please read on and watch my video on it!
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Enamoured by Confidence and raw Sexuality
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Join my upcoming 3 webinars! We always have the most fun, share lots of sexy tips, learn a ton of helpful info and experience mind-blowing magic and pleasure!
Long Distance Full Body Energy Orgasm Testimonial
OMG. You guys should watch this video! Remember, my incredible client Sarah that squirted multiple times during the recent long distance Energy Orgasm video? (Watch it at: https://youtu.be/fhZGPI5Y6J0)
Oh My Goodness!! Miracles are everywhere! Please watch this Mind blowing long distance squirting orgasm video (https://youtu.be/fhZGPI5Y6J0) with 2,400 views in just three short days and see it for yourself! (Our beautiful model Sarah will join us for the upcoming webinar on July 22nd).
I’m really enjoying facilitating these mind blowing, life changing experiences for clients and teaching a practitioner certification course to wonderful students! Ever since I’ve experienced my very first energy orgasm, I couldn’t wait to share it with the world and spread joy, pleasure, sensuality and freedom of completely embracing our authentic selves mind, heart, body and soul!! Such a bliss. DM to learn more or join my free webinar on Energy Orgasms in June: www.spiritsexlab.com/events
“What is your deepest, darkest, most intimate fantasy?” I ask in a low, slow voice looking seductively into your eyes. We don’t openly talk about sex. We feel shame, guilt, fear around our sexuality and fantasies. If we shed some light onto this darkness – incredible sense of pleasure, freedom and joy appear. Trust me, I’ve been there and feel so much more alive. Share your fantasies with me. Together, let’s shine a bit of light into the darkness of your soul.
“Alice in Polyland book is excellent. Let me know when your next comes out. I definitely find myself wanting to read more. Your lack of inhibitions and sexual freedom is very refreshing. I appreciate all your insights from your experiences.”
Alice in Polyland book reader
Questions to ask your lover to better understand their fantasies.
I hear from so many of you that talking about sex may feel difficult and intimidating. I notice how liberating and free my clients feel when we dive into their fantasies, sexual preferences without experiencing judgments, shame or guilt. Below are a few ideas on which questions to ask to get to know your partner’s fantasies a bit better. When this conversation is approached with an open mind in a judgement free space, results are miraculous.