“What is your deepest, darkest, most intimate fantasy?” I ask in a low, slow voice looking seductively into your eyes. We don’t openly talk about sex. We feel shame, guilt, fear around our sexuality and fantasies. If we shed some light onto this darkness – incredible sense of pleasure, freedom and joy appear. Trust me, I’ve been there and feel so much more alive. Share your fantasies with me. Together, let’s shine a bit of light into the darkness of your soul.
Spirit Sex Lab newsletter – June 2020
Just sent off a freshly squeezed newsletter, in it you can find:
1 Video tip on spicing up relationships
2 Free Webinar announcements
2 Healing and Personal transformation blog posts
2 Sexual Guidance articls
3 Spicy Stories
I remember the first time I worked with a photographer shooting erotic photos. How nervous and excited I felt, how I’ve explored my boundaries and gradually learned what the balance of sexy, classy, dirty, playful, dominant / submissive and artistic was just right for me. I’ve been so very fortunate to have worked with incredibly talented photographers in the past few years – alone and with partners, creating sensually enticing, incredibly stimulating photos! Want to see the best ones? Common over to www.aliceinpolyland.com and check out some sultry photography of yours truly. Happy to send you your very own copies – hand written and signed 😉
Mega Energy Boost – Food & Water Following your requests, I’m bringing up the topic of achieving a Mega Energy Boost (#spiritsexlab_energyboost) and today we’re discussing how we can use NUTRITION & WATER to bring more energy into our fields! Each coming Tuesday, stay tuned for lots of useful info and practical tips, follow along […]
“Society is our extended mind and body.”
As within, so without. Even a tiniest shift inside of us will lead to a butterfly effect for the world. Let’s focus on loving ourselves more, being more playful, open-minded, connected, shame and guilt free and kind 😉 If not us, then who? Please comment with a heart if you agree 😉
Me Incognito – Domination and Submission (excerpt from www.aliceinpolyland.com)
“Wear stockings and heels — no bra. You have perfect tits just as they are. I want you to embody your sensuality, and I want to feel it radiating from you. Do you understand? No perfume. I like the smell of a woman. Maybe everyone will smell your sex filling the room…”
“Alice in Polyland book is excellent. Let me know when your next comes out. I definitely find myself wanting to read more. Your lack of inhibitions and sexual freedom is very refreshing. I appreciate all your insights from your experiences.”
Alice in Polyland book reader
Questions to ask your lover to better understand their fantasies.
I hear from so many of you that talking about sex may feel difficult and intimidating. I notice how liberating and free my clients feel when we dive into their fantasies, sexual preferences without experiencing judgments, shame or guilt. Below are a few ideas on which questions to ask to get to know your partner’s fantasies a bit better. When this conversation is approached with an open mind in a judgement free space, results are miraculous.
Mind Sex: Practical Tips (excerpt from Alice in Polyland book available at www.aliceinpolyland.com)
The brain is our main sexual organ. To me, intellectual stimulation of someone, knowing all of their triggers and buttons; as well as an ability to play and weave these into visceral experiences,
is the highest level of sensual connection one can have. This and Energy Orgasms of course 😉
This is one of most potent, mind blowing and fun techniques that is used in Tantra, BDSM and Life lol Have you heard of Edging? Please watch! Comment with thumbs up or down depending on whether you like the game of denial and tease! Lmk if you may be interested in an eWorkshop on more […]