Leaving it alone

“Muddy water is best cleared by leaving it alone.”

Alan Watts

man suffers

Man suffers

“Man suffers only because he takes seriously what the Gods made for fun.”
Alan Watts

“Stop overthinking it”, they say. “You’re too emotional, sensitive, focused, zoomed in…” Do any of these sound familiar? At times, we get overwhelmed by negative emotions and obsessive thought patterns. One of the best tool I’ve found to quiet the mind is called a flying bird technique. Please see below and let me know your coping mechanisms.

Webinar: Female Pleasure + Orgasms – Aftermath

Webinar: Female Pleasure + Orgasms – Aftermath

Thank you so much for everyone who joined our Female Pleasure 4 Types of Orgasms webinar yesterday!

We had a blast going through anatomy and physiology, pleasure techniques, sharing funny sexy stories and watching really explicit videos…
Want to get your hand on the recording and resources? Please DM, it’s only $35 for 1.5h of life long pleasure!!

Kink Personal Growth

10 ways to use kink for growth

10 ways to use kink for growth

Do you think kink (BDSM) can aid at personal growth? Here are a few ways I’ve found kink play to be healing. Let me know your thoughts! Want BDSM specific guidance? DM xoxo

Bringing out the shadow
We all have a darker side to ourselves (so-called negative emotions, perhaps aggression, fear) – seeing it for what it is and exploring it safely and consensually during play may be fun and healing.

Relationship Spice

New ways to spice up relationships – workshop aftermath

New ways to spice up relationships – workshop aftermath

Had a blast at the Saturday morning breakfast workshop with incredible women! We’ve had an incredibly open and candid discussion on sexuality, relationships, ways to add more spice in and quite a few practical ideas / tools to try out at home! Look forward to hearing all about it 😉

Spice Up Relationships

10 ways to spice up relationships

Share fantasies with no judgement (even if you’re not sharing your partner’s enthusiasm about having a threesome, be open to listen and see how you can creatively aid at bringing it to life (dirty talk, fantasy, flirting etc.))
Dirty talk and sext – so much fun, isn’t it! (especially if photos don’t end up in dance mom’s forum by mistake yikes)
Come out to a sexy party (sex clubs, kink parties – ping me for a guided tour offer)
Take a spicy workshop together (so many fun things you could learn together or separately!! I’m offering two this weekend!)

Newsletter

Spirit Sex Lab Newsletter – February ’20

Hot off the virtual press – have you seen today’s newsletter yet? Are you part of Spirit Sex Lab family? Come and join our playful laboratory where we discover everything personal growth, pleasure and desire related. Imagine my account would get blocked and you’d never hear from me again  I’d miss you terribly!

Alice in PolyLand

Lack of inhibitions – Alice in PolyLand

Some people don’t kiss and tell and then there’s me lol Sharing my whole poly journey with you guys 😉 Ok, mostly highlights and yes – all names and some of the visual characteristics changed for privacy reasons. But still – 99.99% real life stories 😉 (more at www.aliceinpolyland.com)

V Day_Spice+Love Ideas

Webinar: Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas – February 9

Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas Webinar – February 9th, 11.00am

Are you looking for a few fun ways to spice up or deepen your relationship? Would you like to learn a variety of ways in which you can pleasure, surprise, entice your partner or communicate your desires to them? Join me for this 1.5h webinar (live or recorded) and open your mind as to what is possible in the vast web of human pleasure experiences.