Happy New Year!
Happy New 2021, beautiful one! A New Year is like a blank book, and the pen is in your hands. It is your chance to write a beautiful story for yourself. Happy New Year!!!
Tag: polyamory
Sexy Play Date Ideas Booklet
Sexy Play Date Ideas Booklet
This 9-page booklet combines spicy, sexy and loving play ideas on how to enhance your current and future relationships as well as bring even more desire and passion into your life.
Ideal Partner
Having been married for 26 years and dating for last 8 (open relationship) I have gone through a lot of fun dating experiences (P. S. want to read about my sexiest dates? get my book at https://www.aliceinpolyland.com) and developed a powerful approach to finding wonderful matches (and let me tell you The Mystery Man rocks!)!
Scavenger Hunt Letters
The time has come for me to tell you all about a game I recently played with the Mystery Man: Letters Scavenger Hunt
This is a great idea to do if you’d like spice things up, add mystery, excitement and playfulness into your connection; as one of our core needs according to Esther Perel is to experience excitement / unpredictability and mystery! Please save this, like, tag and share with others.
Prepare a 5-6 letters, these could be organized and numbered according to a sequence in which you’d like your partner to find these or may just be scattered around the house:
First letter may be placed on a bed side table / underneath a pillow or given in person so that it’s easily found
The rest of the letters can be hidden around a house with hints on where to find them included in each of the letters or marked by visual identifiers (flowers) for better visual clues
Meaning and purpose
What brings you the most meaning right now? 1, 2 or 3?
Video Interview – The Shay Rowbottom Show – Sexual Shame
Had such as blast at The Shay Rowbottom Show! Shay and I spoke about Sexual Shame, healing, shared quite a few personal stories, chatted about polyamory and so much more!
Please listen to this wonderful Podcast #19 Episode here.
On shame
The most important work I do is centered around shame.
As probably many of you know I come from a very conservative upbringing and the feelings of shame, guilt and judgement around sexuality accompanied me throughout my teen and late into my 20s. I had to dig deep, shine some light into these shadows and question / release any beliefs that were not serving me prior to allowing myself to feel free and aligned with my sexual force inside.
Feeling of aversion or attachment
Oh how timely, as I’m navigating trouble in paradise period of my poly relationship life… Honestly, as much as I’d love to dream of letting go of attachments, and just being in the now not trying to long for or control / need my partners to do something specific, I can’t. I love loving, being deeply attached, feeling the connection. And so I don’t know how practical is it to completely let go of attachments, instead, perhaps what we can attempt to do is witness it all from the side. Align with best part of ourselves during the conflict resolution phase and have open / non defensive communication supported by a common intention. Thoughts?
Open When Letters
This is a great idea to do if your partner is leaving for a trip, you’re in a long distance relationship or you’d just like to add a bit of playfulness to your relationship and leave these notes behind after your date in a mailbox or underneath a pillow. Please save this, like, tag and share with others.
Confidence and raw sexuality
Enamoured by Confidence and raw Sexuality
Mmmm. Thank you so much! Want to join in on the raw sexuality and confidence fun 😉
Join my upcoming 3 webinars! We always have the most fun, share lots of sexy tips, learn a ton of helpful info and experience mind-blowing magic and pleasure!
www.spiritsexlab.com/events