When I was first embarking on the personal development journey, I remember a wise person telling me that we go through three stages in life:
Growing up we accept and learn from those who surround us about life’s principles, values, norms and expectations; we adapt their belief systems
Later in life we realize that there are different ways of looking at the same subject, multiple belief systems and truths among people
Finally we arrive at peeling off all of the layers and questioning them with scrutiny – deciding for ourselves which beliefs we want to keep and which ones are not serving us any longer
Predicament bondage is a wonderfully playful concept that includes elements of restraint (use of rope, handcuffs, telling someone to hold still etc.) and psychological domination (play that affects you multidimensionally). Usually play ideas involve creating a scenario where someone is told to hold still (with or without restraints) and is teased or tormented in a way that encourages movement, forcing them to fight against that impulse.
Oh how timely, as I’m navigating trouble in paradise period of my poly relationship life… Honestly, as much as I’d love to dream of letting go of attachments, and just being in the now not trying to long for or control / need my partners to do something specific, I can’t. I love loving, being deeply attached, feeling the connection. And so I don’t know how practical is it to completely let go of attachments, instead, perhaps what we can attempt to do is witness it all from the side. Align with best part of ourselves during the conflict resolution phase and have open / non defensive communication supported by a common intention. Thoughts?
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Dating guidance + Resources
Dating experience can get pretty challenging and emotionally draining. Ghosting, connecting with unsuitable people, ruined expectations and superficiality of online dating are only some of the issues one may encounter while trying to look for a partner. Additionally, looking through the right channels aids at much better chances of finding the best suitable person in a shorter amount of time.
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Purple light district (more polyamory related, erotic stories can be found at www.aliceinpolyland.com)
He was a tech guru. Incredibly smart, unique, tall, handsome. Though he didn’t really believe the latter. His last relationship left him questioning his self confidence.
“Do you know why the Red Light District in Amsterdam has that name?”, asked Valen over one of their casual online chats. “I’m not sure, babe, why?” “The sex workers turn on the red lights to attract their customers… I will turn my lights purple whenever I’m in the mood.” he texted
Parallel Universe – Erotica (Read more stories and get my book at www.aliceinpolyland.com)
“Multiverse theorists argue that the continuous expansion of the universe has produced various pockets of energy that ended up expanding at a much faster rate and created several other pocket universes of their own.”
Feeling the rope surround and caress her body, listening to the sounds of binaural beat patterns, Alice was floating in and out of consciousness… Into a state of trans. Lightness. Energy. Peculiar visions, woven together as a bouquet of sensations and memories surrounded her…
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Dating while married was proving to be a challenge. Being sensual, open-minded and polyamorous was a triple challenge it had seemed. Often times, her dating profile was skipped past ‘open marriage’ and she was largely misunderstood / mistaken for someone looking for casual sex as the concept of polyamory (forming more than one loving, romantic relationship) was a foreign one to most.