Kink Personal Growth

10 ways to use kink for growth

10 ways to use kink for growth

Do you think kink (BDSM) can aid at personal growth? Here are a few ways I’ve found kink play to be healing. Let me know your thoughts! Want BDSM specific guidance? DM xoxo

Bringing out the shadow
We all have a darker side to ourselves (so-called negative emotions, perhaps aggression, fear) – seeing it for what it is and exploring it safely and consensually during play may be fun and healing.

Sane all the time

“No one is more dangerously insane than one who is sane all the time.

Alan Watts

Phew – that felt good lol

PolyAmory

Polyamory: P1

A few people have asked me about a polyamorous lifestyle. Each person is unique and therefore we all need custom solutions when it comes to our relationships. Some are happy being monogamous, others – single, then there are those who prefer consensual non monogamy. Of course, there’s no judgement either way. Here is a two […]

Connection: Partner – Senses

5 Senses I love being playful… Do you? Spicy relationships are hugely connected to a sense of novelty… Surprises. Play. Speaking of play – do you know what your primary sense is? How about your partner’s? TIP: Try contemplating on your sensual preferences, they may enhance your connection with a loved one. What comes to […]

We are but older children dear

“We are but older children dear, who fret to find our bedtime near.”Lewis Carroll Kink has always reminded me of kids play. Just more adult-like 😉What are your favourite games to play – in and out of bedroom?

testimonial

Abundance of femininity, power and playfulness

“Alice exudes an abundance of femininity, power, and playfulness and is one of the most daring, sensual, and fun women I have ever met.”
A. V. , Financial Director

I used to be a very self conscious child. Bullied at school, unpopular, unsure of myself. I used to hate speaking up, connecting to strangers and being seen. I don’t feel this way anymore majority of the time… I can connect with the sensual, seductive and powerful energy source within myself  or drop into a more vulnerable self. I am happy to chat to strangers and love deeply connecting with people.

we are all mad

We are all mad

“We’re all mad here. I’m mad. You’re mad.”
Louse Carrol

Now that we got that our of the way lol What’s your sensual super power or super fantasy 😉
Come experience it with me! www.spiritsexlab.com/events

Alice in PolyLand Book Launch!

WOW. Just a few words on the Saturday night as I’ve promised to update you guys! First stop: Incredible dinner at CN Tower generously sponsored by Troy Chudzik (huge fan, amazing supporter and a wonderful patron and friend) who has been so incredibly generous towards my Alice in Polyland book campaign that he backed it […]

Alice in Polyland - Lat day

Last day of my Alice in PolyLand campaign!

Can you believe it? It’s the last day of my Alice in PolyLand campaign! We have surpassed the goal and are at 126%! Thank YOU! If you still haven’t ordered the book and would like to HELP ME meet my new goals of 3,5K to create the second eLearning course on Sexually Spiritual topic such as […]