I went work with Evguenia because I didn’t want to risk my relationship getting stale. We are both very adventurous (and a little conservative) and wanted to expand our ways of connection. I was mostly curious about energy orgasms as it was completely outside my understanding and I wanted to experience them myself and also guide my wife to have them.
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Having been married for 26 years and dating for last 8 (open relationship) I have gone through a lot of fun dating experiences (P. S. want to read about my sexiest dates? get my book at https://www.aliceinpolyland.com) and developed a powerful approach to finding wonderful matches (and let me tell you The Mystery Man rocks!)!
The time has come for me to tell you all about a game I recently played with the Mystery Man: Letters Scavenger Hunt
This is a great idea to do if you’d like spice things up, add mystery, excitement and playfulness into your connection; as one of our core needs according to Esther Perel is to experience excitement / unpredictability and mystery! Please save this, like, tag and share with others.
Prepare a 5-6 letters, these could be organized and numbered according to a sequence in which you’d like your partner to find these or may just be scattered around the house:
First letter may be placed on a bed side table / underneath a pillow or given in person so that it’s easily found
The rest of the letters can be hidden around a house with hints on where to find them included in each of the letters or marked by visual identifiers (flowers) for better visual clues
When I was first embarking on the personal development journey, I remember a wise person telling me that we go through three stages in life:
Growing up we accept and learn from those who surround us about life’s principles, values, norms and expectations; we adapt their belief systems
Later in life we realize that there are different ways of looking at the same subject, multiple belief systems and truths among people
Finally we arrive at peeling off all of the layers and questioning them with scrutiny – deciding for ourselves which beliefs we want to keep and which ones are not serving us any longer
Spirit Sex Lab newsletter – October 2020
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Predicament bondage
Predicament bondage is a wonderfully playful concept that includes elements of restraint (use of rope, handcuffs, telling someone to hold still etc.) and psychological domination (play that affects you multidimensionally). Usually play ideas involve creating a scenario where someone is told to hold still (with or without restraints) and is teased or tormented in a way that encourages movement, forcing them to fight against that impulse.
Some of you wanted to hear about my play idea last Saturday. This would work well for anyone who’d like to add more spice into play and change up your sensual routine, try out Domination / Submission ideas or wants to even out the field if one of the partners is feeling less up for play than the other. This can work well in person or long distance via video screen sharing.
Oh how timely, as I’m navigating trouble in paradise period of my poly relationship life… Honestly, as much as I’d love to dream of letting go of attachments, and just being in the now not trying to long for or control / need my partners to do something specific, I can’t. I love loving, being deeply attached, feeling the connection. And so I don’t know how practical is it to completely let go of attachments, instead, perhaps what we can attempt to do is witness it all from the side. Align with best part of ourselves during the conflict resolution phase and have open / non defensive communication supported by a common intention. Thoughts?
This is a great idea to do if your partner is leaving for a trip, you’re in a long distance relationship or you’d just like to add a bit of playfulness to your relationship and leave these notes behind after your date in a mailbox or underneath a pillow. Please save this, like, tag and share with others.
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