Open When Letters

This is a great idea to do if your partner is leaving for a trip, you’re in a long distance relationship or you’d just like to add a bit of playfulness to your relationship and leave these notes behind after your date in a mailbox or underneath a pillow. Please save this, like, tag and share with others.

Testimonials workshop

Confidence and raw sexuality

Enamoured by Confidence and raw Sexuality

Mmmm. Thank you so much! Want to join in on the raw sexuality and confidence fun 😉
Join my upcoming 3 webinars! We always have the most fun, share lots of sexy tips, learn a ton of helpful info and experience mind-blowing magic and pleasure!
www.spiritsexlab.com/events

Dating Guidance

Dating Guidance & Resources

Dating guidance + Resources

Dating experience can get pretty challenging and emotionally draining. Ghosting, connecting with unsuitable people, ruined expectations and superficiality of online dating are only some of the issues one may encounter while trying to look for a partner. Additionally, looking through the right channels aids at much better chances of finding the best suitable person in a shorter amount of time.

relationships

New knowledge, atmosphere, discussions

New knowledge, atmosphere, discussions Some of you may know that I’ve been married for 25 years, last 8 practicing polyamory (a consensually open relationship approach). Throughout the years I’ve learned so much about connection deepening, conflict resolution, how our personal growth affects our partners and so much more… What are some of the main realizations […]

Redefining Relationships

Redefining Partner + Relationships (Relationship spectrum exploration)

Redefining Partner + Relationships (Relationship Spectrum Exploration)

“There is nothing more truly artistic than to love people.” Vincent Van Gogh

Do you have trouble finding the right people to date? Would you like to understand how to maintain deeper, more loving relationships while openly communicating your truth? Or are you interested to explore a sea of other options outside of a typical relationship root showcased by popular media?

Alice in Polyland

Read Alice in Polyland – Erotica

Hi Lovely! Have you ever felt restricted or repressed in fully expressing who you are deep down inside at your very core? Perhaps, you’ve come from a conservative background where any expression of sexuality has been forbidden. Maybe, you’ve been in a long term relationship and have lost the fire within. Possibly, you’re on a journey of bringing more passion into your life and redefining yourself.

Letting Go

Letting go of old painful patterns / relationships

Letting go of old painful patterns / relationships (D + R)

“To let go does not mean to get rid of. To let go means to let be. When we let be with compassion, things come and go on their own.” – Jack Kornfield

Do you have trouble disconnecting from the people you dated or loved? If so, you’re not alone. According to the attachment theory we all attach in various ways. Some are avoidant and tend to connect slowly and reluctantly. Others attach and detach with ease. Letting go for someone who has an anxious attachment style is especially hard.

expect nothing

Expect nothing

“It is important to expect nothing, to take every experience, including the negative ones, as merely steps on the path, and to proceed.”
Ram Dass

Purple Light

Purple light district

Purple light district (more polyamory related, erotic stories can be found at www.aliceinpolyland.com)

He was a tech guru. Incredibly smart, unique, tall, handsome. Though he didn’t really believe the latter. His last relationship left him questioning his self confidence.

“Do you know why the Red Light District in Amsterdam has that name?”, asked Valen over one of their casual online chats. “I’m not sure, babe, why?” “The sex workers turn on the red lights to attract their customers… I will turn my lights purple whenever I’m in the mood.” he texted