our reality

Our Plans

I tend to say “The future is friendly” – just like an old telecommunications commercial has taught us 🙂 Our fears, anxiety about the future  and negative projections typically never come true exactly as we were afraid they would. Have a wonderful day, my friends and enjoy today! It’s magnificent. And the NOW is also we ever had anyways!

Purple Light

Purple light district

Purple light district (more polyamory related, erotic stories can be found at www.aliceinpolyland.com)

He was a tech guru. Incredibly smart, unique, tall, handsome. Though he didn’t really believe the latter. His last relationship left him questioning his self confidence.

“Do you know why the Red Light District in Amsterdam has that name?”, asked Valen over one of their casual online chats. “I’m not sure, babe, why?” “The sex workers turn on the red lights to attract their customers… I will turn my lights purple whenever I’m in the mood.” he texted

walking each other home

Walking each other home

“We’re all just walking each other home.”

Ram Dass

We’re such social creatures – others help us see ourselves, experience our energy, learn. Everyone I’m interacting with on daily basis is teaching me something about me and the world. People that are close to me, family members, relationships, friendships, clients – are all journey partners that accompany me in this life. I, in turn, am journeying and reflecting back to them who they are. Isn’t it incredible? Please connect and tag your favorite fellow traveler. 

Life full of what you like doing

“It’s better to have a short life that is full of what you like doing, than a long life spent in a miserable way.” Alan Watts This theme came up in a client coaching session today and I couldn’t agree more. Ever since my thyroid cancer diagnosis I understood this more clearly than ever – […]

Hard to Notice

“It is hard indeed to notice anything for which the languages available to us have no description.”

Alan Watts

Sensual Energy Orgasm Touch Free

Yesterday we had an incredible time exploring Energy orgasm with @remedymoore!  This work is profound, deep, downright sexy and is our birth right! Each of us is capable of having multidimensional deep orgasmic experiences (body, mind, heart and soul). Each of us is can experience multiple ecstatic waves of pleasure (yes, males too!) Everyone can feel their cells bursting with sensuality, pleasure, joy and ecstasy. Here’s a short trailer from the session. Full video is coming in next few weeks.

Managing Difficult Emotions: P3

Managing Difficult Emotions, Three part Series. Part three. (Please read previous parts here: Part One & Part Two) 4. Processing Processing happens differently for different emotions and people Hitting a sofa with a pillow, having a temper tantrum on the floor when alone and ripping paper are great ways to release anger Crying and journaling work […]

Universe looking at itself

“You are an aperture through which the universe is looking at and exploring itself.”
Alan Watts

What are you exploring right now?

Leaving it alone

“Muddy water is best cleared by leaving it alone.”

Alan Watts

FWB+

FWB +

Dating while married was proving to be a challenge. Being sensual, open-minded and polyamorous was a triple challenge it had seemed. Often times, her dating profile was skipped past ‘open marriage’ and she was largely misunderstood / mistaken for someone looking for casual sex as the concept of polyamory (forming more than one loving, romantic relationship) was a foreign one to most.