how you feel inside your head

Inside your head

“All that you see out in front of you is how you feel inside your head.”
Alan Watts

We often project our fears, worries and anxieties onto others… According to Wikipedia, psychological projection is a defence mechanism in which the human ego defends itself against unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others. 

Giving & Receiving: Video

One of the most powerful ideas with regards to pleasure and sexuality that I’ve come across in my years of researching it is very simple. It’s the idea of separation of giving and receiving.

Often, we tend to engage with our lovers simultaneously into various pleasure-filled activities when we’re both giving and receiving sensations and pleasure at the same time. Though its fun and could be very rewarding, separation of giving and receiving is used a lot in Tantra, BDSM and allows each of us to fully give and fully receive the energy. 

Wonderful Guide

“You’ve been a wonderful guide to various people that I know, including close friends. As someone who has been [art of the lifestyle for many years, I thank you. xoxo”
Alex Dark, Event Organizer

Limitless Possibilities – August 17th Party here we come

Limitless Possibilities – August 17th Party here we come

Tomorrow is the day! We will be open, playful, limitless!!!

“If you limit your actions in life to things that nobody can possibly find fault with, you will not do much!”

Lewis Carroll

We are but older children dear

“We are but older children dear, who fret to find our bedtime near.”Lewis Carroll Kink has always reminded me of kids play. […]

Wonderful Guide

“You’ve been a wonderful guide to various people that I know, including close friends. As someone who has been a part of the lifestyle for many years, I thank you. xoxo”
Alex Dark

Thank you so much Alex! BTW Alex will share his knowledge and passion for impact play at a Discipline Me station at August 17th party!! Can’t wait.

Alice in Polyland Energy Orgasm Show

What an incredible line up of events coming up to Alice in Wonderland carefully curated party on August 17th! We have 4 spots left.
The guests will be able to watch a beautiful and sexy energy movement called Energy Orgasm during our show with LourdesJane! Here’s a glimpse. Full video on this amazing body,heart, mind and soul phenomenon is available on my YouTube channel (SpiritSexLab)

Through the Looking Glass

What an incredible line up of events for the party! Sensuality takes so many different forms! There’s the role play / kink / BDSM spectrum that one can explore (we will have multiple experiential stations and shows form this realm), there’s ability to connect with multiple people that can bring on much joy as well as spiritual / mindful sensuality one can launch into. We will have demos and workshops on this as well. Sky is the limit. What’s your favorite mix?

Safe, comfortable, relaxed

Safe, comfortable, relaxed place

“A perfectly safe, comfortable, relaxed place to open up, ask, discuss, air, learn, change. I wish I met you earlier.”
Y. S.

sexually liberating

Sexually Liberating Experience

” I am so grateful for that incredibly satisfying  and sexually liberating experience that Alice has created for me and the participants, where I was “chained” to a cross blind-folded (all consensual of course) and played with. It is so delicious and arousing to have a fantasy come to life! A heartfelt thank you for an unforgettably fun experience.”