understand their nature

I can understand their nature

Awareness and understanding of our passions and motions are so important. What drives us, what do we need and how do we live intentionally authentically while being aligned with who we are deep down inside? Personal Development guidance is available here:https://www.spiritsexlab.com/contact/ Lets’ focus on what matters the most.

shame

On shame

The most important work I do is centered around shame.

As probably many of you know I come from a very conservative upbringing and the feelings of shame, guilt and judgement around sexuality accompanied me throughout my teen and late into my 20s. I had to dig deep, shine some light into these shadows and question / release any beliefs that were not serving me prior to allowing myself to feel free and aligned with my sexual force inside.

Play

Hour of play

Play could be so invigorating and healing! Want to come and play with me? Join my free Energy Orgasm Foundations webinar and learn about incredible multidimensional play with could do together: https://spiritsexlab.as.me/EnergyOrgasm

Bondage

Predicament bondage – Play Ideas

Predicament bondage

Predicament bondage is a wonderfully playful concept that includes elements of restraint (use of rope, handcuffs, telling someone to hold still etc.) and psychological domination (play that affects you multidimensionally). Usually play ideas involve creating a scenario where someone is told to hold still (with or without restraints) and is teased or tormented in a way that encourages movement, forcing them to fight against that impulse.

Transition into Play

Transition into Play

From Mental to Playful Transitions

We all tend to be busy and often quite preoccupied during the day – work, errands, kids, parents – out day to day lives have a certain busy stress-filled rhythm. What does it take to transition into a slowed down, experiential, playful, sensual, sexual, creative and connective space with our lovers?

Alice in Polyland

Alice in Polyland – Personal Journey

Want to know what drives me to write this blog, why Iā€™m in the Healing & Sexuality field and published Alice in PolyLand Erotic book? Please read on and watch my video on it!
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Alice in Polyland

Great Anniversary / Gift Book Idea

Great Anniversary / Gift Book Idea

Want to create something special for your loved one? Thinking of surprising them with a fun date followed by a great take away present?

Here’s a fun idea that works very well: Sensual Book

Alice's Tales Webinar

September 10, 7pm – Alice’s Sexy Tales Live Erotica Reading + Q & A

Join this FREE* with any book add-on purchase (support your favorite blogger ;)) Exclusive Alice’s Sexy Tales webinar and listen to mind-blowing sexual stories (not included in the book) Alice has experienced that will surely inspire you to play out your own deep seated fantasies and help you unleash your sensual desires. Stay for an […]

Sexy Coupons

Sexy Coupons

One day I had an idea to create playful and sexy coupons to use with a partner… Today he’s planning on redeeming one of these šŸ¤£
Guess which one it will be!

Remote D/S Play

Sex Drive Differences – Play Ideas

Some of you wanted to hear about my play idea last Saturday. This would work well for anyone who’d like to add more spice into play and change up your sensual routine, try out Domination / Submission ideas or wants to even out the field if one of the partners is feeling less up for play than the other. This can work well in person or long distance via video screen sharing.