how you feel inside your head

Inside your head

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“All that you see out in front of you is how you feel inside your head.”
Alan Watts

We often project our fears, worries and anxieties onto others… According to Wikipedia, psychological projection is a defence mechanism in which the human ego defends itself against unconscious impulses or qualities (both positive and negative) by denying their existence in themselves while attributing them to others. 

Giving & Receiving: Video

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One of the most powerful ideas with regards to pleasure and sexuality that I’ve come across in my years of researching it is very simple. It’s the idea of separation of giving and receiving.

Often, we tend to engage with our lovers simultaneously into various pleasure-filled activities when we’re both giving and receiving sensations and pleasure at the same time. Though its fun and could be very rewarding, separation of giving and receiving is used a lot in Tantra, BDSM and allows each of us to fully give and fully receive the energy. 

Alice in PolyLand Party Part 2

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Guests start to arrive – oh my what wonderful costumes they have on! So many sexy red queens in beautiful lingerie / dresses / costumes. Skirts made out of playing cards, little crowns on their heads. So many cats and kittens with incredible makeup and body paints, high end tuxedo sharp looking gentlemen, also wearing leather suits and ladies in sensual lingerie / tutus.

Alice in PolyLand Part 1

Alice in PolyLand Party Part 1

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So many of you who couldn’t make it to the Alice in Polyland party have asked to tell the tale

I’m happy to share some of the incredible things that our guests have enjoyed and explored. Of course privacy and anonymity are very important to us. I will therefore share the events in general terms and won’t mention any names or go into details with regards to personal experiences. Consider my story a three fantasy tale where reality and fantasy are intertwined 😉

Alice in Polyland Energy Orgasm Show

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What an incredible line up of events coming up to Alice in Wonderland carefully curated party on August 17th! We have 4 spots left.
The guests will be able to watch a beautiful and sexy energy movement called Energy Orgasm during our show with LourdesJane! Here’s a glimpse. Full video on this amazing body,heart, mind and soul phenomenon is available on my YouTube channel (SpiritSexLab)