Would you like to take control in the bedroom?
Exude confidence paired up with inner strength? Embrace your inner Disciplinarian? Or would you like to submit to a strong Dominant partner?
When creating a Domination / Submission experience, please consider:
The kind of fantasy you’d like to play out
Would you use an element of bondage? (verbal directions to prevent your partner from moving, handcuffs, a rope or a tie)
Would you ask your submissive (sub) to service you? (Examples could include giving you pleasure, a massage, telling you compliments)
Would you punish them if they were disobedient? If so, in what way?
10 ways to use kink for growth
Do you think kink (BDSM) can aid at personal growth? Here are a few ways I’ve found kink play to be healing. Let me know your thoughts! Want BDSM specific guidance? DM xoxo
Bringing out the shadow
We all have a darker side to ourselves (so-called negative emotions, perhaps aggression, fear) – seeing it for what it is and exploring it safely and consensually during play may be fun and healing.
Share fantasies with no judgement (even if you’re not sharing your partner’s enthusiasm about having a threesome, be open to listen and see how you can creatively aid at bringing it to life (dirty talk, fantasy, flirting etc.))
Dirty talk and sext – so much fun, isn’t it! (especially if photos don’t end up in dance mom’s forum by mistake yikes)
Come out to a sexy party (sex clubs, kink parties – ping me for a guided tour offer)
Take a spicy workshop together (so many fun things you could learn together or separately!! I’m offering two this weekend!)
Hot off the virtual press – have you seen today’s newsletter yet? Are you part of Spirit Sex Lab family? Come and join our playful laboratory where we discover everything personal growth, pleasure and desire related. Imagine my account would get blocked and you’d never hear from me again I’d miss you terribly!
Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas Webinar – February 9th, 11.00am
Are you looking for a few fun ways to spice up or deepen your relationship? Would you like to learn a variety of ways in which you can pleasure, surprise, entice your partner or communicate your desires to them? Join me for this 1.5h webinar (live or recorded) and open your mind as to what is possible in the vast web of human pleasure experiences.
Listen to an Interview with me as I join the amazing Sex with Dr. Jess Podcast! During this soulfully wild podcast Jess and Brandon ask me a series of questions about kink, energy orgasms and multidimensional body scans! I even read a story on my very first kink party experience at a private dungeon! Absolutely loved our discussion! Thank you so much Jess and Brandon!
“I liked the friendly atmosphere and being allowed to roam and look at new things!”
Kink Party Tour Participant
Kink 101 Workshop and Guided Tour – Aftermath
WHAT A BLAST! Thanks co much to our incredible kink tour participants and a beautiful model! The dungeon looked gorgeous in all of it’s glory with multiple fantasy rooms. Everyone felt comfortable, safe and playful 😊 We had a wonderful hilarious scene with our beautiful cat model. The setting took place in a vet office and we examined her in detail from head to toe! Making sure all of her cat parts worked perfectly. Spanking, tickling and electric therapies have been administered to make sure she was in the best possible standing. At the end her tummy got brushed and a mouse was given as a prize 😊 Pet play is so much fun!
“Evguenia, I wanted to thank you for sharing with me your gift, your time and energy today. From the moment I walked in, you made me feel so welcomed and comfortable. I could be truly myself without judgement. ” T. S. You are beautiful inside. You may not believe it. It may feel confusing. We […]
Enslaved Goddess – a story written by Mystique – taking place live on November 2nd!
In a land far far away, a couple (Mystique & her partner Theo) had been travelling through the foreign lands and now have gotten lost. After wandering for three days without seeing a soul and crossing a mountain range, they came across a valley with a little town, secluded from the rest of the outside world. This town was unlike anything that Mystique has ever seen before: peculiarly dressed people, strange animals, strange plants, and peculiar looking houses. These local people were advanced in every way, and creative, liberal, and “free” in their way of life.