worth

Busy holding onto your unworthiness.

“Your problem is you’re… too busy holding onto your unworthiness.”
Ram Dass

Yes. There’s a personal story connected to this saying. One day at a rock climbing gym as I was reaching the top of the tall climbing wall I had a moment of intense fear. “You can’t do it”, – the fear said to me “this is unsafe, you will fall down, you’re just not strong enough”. It was a momentary uncomfortable experience, fear gripping my whole body and thoughts racing in my head. I looked down and saw my partner belaying me (essentially I was being held by a strong rope and so no matter what would happen, the worst outcome would’ve been me just dangling a bit in the air until I grabbed onto a stone again). I took a deep breath and looked up and noticed that I only had 3 more stones to go, I knew I was physically strong enough to proceed. And then it hit me “I was the one stopping myself. Always”.

Identifying Needs

IDENTIFYING NEEDS + REDEFINING ONESELF

IDENTIFYING NEEDS + REDEFINING ONESELF (SEXUALLY, EMOTIONALLY, SPIRITUALLY), SETTING AND MANIFESTING INTENTIONS  

Once, someone very wise has mentioned to me that while growing up we go through three stages of understanding ourselves and the world around us:

Learning what our parents and society believe we should be like and the societal norms we need to follow
Realizing that not everyone follows the same principles in life
Redefining for ourselves what our needs, values and belief systems are

Extended mind and body

“Society is our extended mind and body.”

Alan Watts

As within, so without. Even a tiniest shift inside of us will lead to a butterfly effect for the world. Let’s focus on loving ourselves more, being more playful, open-minded, connected, shame and guilt free and kind 😉 If not us, then who? Please comment with a heart if you agree 😉

Managing Difficult Emotions: P3

Managing Difficult Emotions, Three part Series. Part three. (Please read previous parts here: Part One & Part Two) 4. Processing Processing happens differently […]

44 in 2020

44 in 2020

Turned 44 today, my friends!! I personally love numbers, so to me being 44 in the year 2020 feels so great! And I’m so grateful to have you here to celebrate with me. Thank you so much for all of your love, notes, messages and wishes. Let’s share lots of joy, happiness, pleasure, vulnerability and depth this coming year! Here’s a little birthday note I’ve received today – so very special.

44 years from Birth

Webinar: Female Pleasure + Orgasms – Aftermath

Webinar: Female Pleasure + Orgasms – Aftermath

Thank you so much for everyone who joined our Female Pleasure 4 Types of Orgasms webinar yesterday!

We had a blast going through anatomy and physiology, pleasure techniques, sharing funny sexy stories and watching really explicit videos…
Want to get your hand on the recording and resources? Please DM, it’s only $35 for 1.5h of life long pleasure!!

Relationship Spice

New ways to spice up relationships – workshop aftermath

New ways to spice up relationships – workshop aftermath

Had a blast at the Saturday morning breakfast workshop with incredible women! We’ve had an incredibly open and candid discussion on sexuality, relationships, ways to add more spice in and quite a few practical ideas / tools to try out at home! Look forward to hearing all about it 😉

V Day_Spice+Love Ideas

Webinar: Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas – February 9

Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas Webinar – February 9th, 11.00am

Are you looking for a few fun ways to spice up or deepen your relationship? Would you like to learn a variety of ways in which you can pleasure, surprise, entice your partner or communicate your desires to them? Join me for this 1.5h webinar (live or recorded) and open your mind as to what is possible in the vast web of human pleasure experiences.