Would you like to take control in the bedroom?
Exude confidence paired up with inner strength? Embrace your inner Disciplinarian? Or would you like to submit to a strong Dominant partner?
When creating a Domination / Submission experience, please consider:
The kind of fantasy you’d like to play out
Would you use an element of bondage? (verbal directions to prevent your partner from moving, handcuffs, a rope or a tie)
Would you ask your submissive (sub) to service you? (Examples could include giving you pleasure, a massage, telling you compliments)
Would you punish them if they were disobedient? If so, in what way?
Predicament bondage is a wonderfully playful concept that includes elements of restraint (use of rope, handcuffs, telling someone to hold still etc.) and psychological domination (play that affects you multidimensionally). Usually play ideas involve creating a scenario where someone is told to hold still (with or without restraints) and is teased or tormented in a way that encourages movement, forcing them to fight against that impulse.
Some of you wanted to hear about my play idea last Saturday. This would work well for anyone who’d like to add more spice into play and change up your sensual routine, try out Domination / Submission ideas or wants to even out the field if one of the partners is feeling less up for play than the other. This can work well in person or long distance via video screen sharing.
Parallel Universe – Erotica (Read more stories and get my book at www.aliceinpolyland.com)
“Multiverse theorists argue that the continuous expansion of the universe has produced various pockets of energy that ended up expanding at a much faster rate and created several other pocket universes of their own.”
Feeling the rope surround and caress her body, listening to the sounds of binaural beat patterns, Alice was floating in and out of consciousness… Into a state of trans. Lightness. Energy. Peculiar visions, woven together as a bouquet of sensations and memories surrounded her…
Me Incognito – Domination and Submission (excerpt from www.aliceinpolyland.com)
“Wear stockings and heels — no bra. You have perfect tits just as they are. I want you to embody your sensuality, and I want to feel it radiating from you. Do you understand? No perfume. I like the smell of a woman. Maybe everyone will smell your sex filling the room…”
Questions to ask your lover to better understand their fantasies.
I hear from so many of you that talking about sex may feel difficult and intimidating. I notice how liberating and free my clients feel when we dive into their fantasies, sexual preferences without experiencing judgments, shame or guilt. Below are a few ideas on which questions to ask to get to know your partner’s fantasies a bit better. When this conversation is approached with an open mind in a judgement free space, results are miraculous.
Touch & Go – Still Waters Run Deep
1 – Kiss me on the lips
…Alice was used to experiencing an intensely burning fire. Connection with Valen was different. It started off slowly. He was so unlike anyone she’s ever met before – extremely smart, confident, in charge, deep, yet vulnerably touching with a pinch of shyness thrown in and a child’s sense of wonder.
He had a huge smile on his face as soon as she’d joined him at the local café for the very first date. “Such an exciting energy he has”, Alice thought looking into his sparkling eyes. Deep conversations intertwined with laughs and personal sharing – she loved it all.
Kink 101 Workshop and Guided Tour – Aftermath
WHAT A BLAST! Thanks co much to our incredible kink tour participants and a beautiful model! The dungeon looked gorgeous in all of it’s glory with multiple fantasy rooms. Everyone felt comfortable, safe and playful ? We had a wonderful hilarious scene with our beautiful cat model. The setting took place in a vet office and we examined her in detail from head to toe! Making sure all of her cat parts worked perfectly. Spanking, tickling and electric therapies have been administered to make sure she was in the best possible standing. At the end her tummy got brushed and a mouse was given as a prize ? Pet play is so much fun!
Appearance: Catch me at a wonderful Venetian Ball Kink Party (May 18, 2019) You can find me at this awesome kink event! The party is a Fabulous Night of Proper English, Behaviour and Discipline at Mistress Patricia Marsh’s exquisite Dungeon. This Victorian house is totally dedicated to BDSM play with 6 fantasy chambers. It is the […]