Mr Incognito

Mr Incognito – Domination and Submission

Me Incognito – Domination and Submission (excerpt from www.aliceinpolyland.com)

“Wear stockings and heels — no bra. You have perfect tits just as they are. I want you to embody your sensuality, and I want to feel it radiating from you. Do you understand? No perfume. I like the smell of a woman. Maybe everyone will smell your sex filling the room…”

Mind Sex: Practical Tips

Mind Sex: Practical Tips (excerpt from Alice in Polyland book available at www.aliceinpolyland.com)

The brain is our main sexual organ. To me, intellectual stimulation of someone, knowing all of their triggers and buttons; as well as an ability to play and weave these into visceral experiences,
is the highest level of sensual connection one can have. This and Energy Orgasms of course 😉

Bedroom Technique Edging

Spicy Bedroom Techniques: Edging (Video)

This is one of most potent, mind blowing and fun techniques that is used in Tantra, BDSM and Life lol Have you heard of Edging? Please watch! Comment with thumbs up or down depending on whether you like the game of denial and tease! Lmk if you may be interested in an eWorkshop on more […]

sensual movies

Sensual Movies – Reader’s Tips

Some folks are really turned on by artistically filmed, sexy, sensual movies. Below is a great collection of movies that my friend Alex Dark of Black and Blue has recommended for your viewing pleasure. I am also adding a few of my favorites below. What a great idea for a sexy date or two! Please […]

decadent play party

Decadent Play Party – Erotica

Decadent Play Party – Erotica It was a party to remember… Medieval dungeon space. Torture chamber with so many tools and gadgets that Alice was in complete disbelief and owe. Was she in a dream? Or better yet – a nightmare? A tall, beautiful dark-haired woman was bound to an X-shaped cross. Her elegant partner […]

Covid-19 Free Online Group Support and 1 Hour sessions available

Many people have asked me to offer shorter duration sessions online – and I happily obliged 🙂 Currently offering 1h, 1.5h and 2h support sessions on a variety of topics:

Covid Emotional Balance Support
Covid Sensual Desire Boost Support
Dealing with difficult emotions
Personal Transformation
Dating + Relationships
Sensuality and Pleasure Guidance

Touch & Go – Still Waters Run Deep 

Touch & Go – Still Waters Run Deep 

1 – Kiss me on the lips
…Alice was used to experiencing an intensely burning fire. Connection with Valen was different. It started off slowly. He was so unlike anyone she’s ever met before – extremely smart, confident, in charge, deep, yet vulnerably touching with a pinch of shyness thrown in and a child’s sense of wonder.

He had a huge smile on his face as soon as she’d joined him at the local café for the very first date. “Such an exciting energy he has”, Alice thought looking into his sparkling eyes. Deep conversations intertwined with laughs and personal sharing – she loved it all.

Would you like to take control in the bedroom?

Would you like to take control in the bedroom?

Exude confidence paired up with inner strength? Embrace your inner Disciplinarian? Or would you like to submit to a strong Dominant partner?

When creating a Domination / Submission experience, please consider:

The kind of fantasy you’d like to play out

Would you use an element of bondage? (verbal directions to prevent your partner from moving, handcuffs, a rope or a tie)
Would you ask your submissive (sub) to service you? (Examples could include giving you pleasure, a massage, telling you compliments)
Would you punish them if they were disobedient? If so, in what way?

Kink Personal Growth

10 ways to use kink for growth

10 ways to use kink for growth

Do you think kink (BDSM) can aid at personal growth? Here are a few ways I’ve found kink play to be healing. Let me know your thoughts! Want BDSM specific guidance? DM xoxo

Bringing out the shadow
We all have a darker side to ourselves (so-called negative emotions, perhaps aggression, fear) – seeing it for what it is and exploring it safely and consensually during play may be fun and healing.