Would you like to take control in the bedroom?

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Would you like to take control in the bedroom?

Exude confidence paired up with inner strength? Embrace your inner Disciplinarian? Or would you like to submit to a strong Dominant partner?

When creating a Domination / Submission experience, please consider:

The kind of fantasy you’d like to play out

Would you use an element of bondage? (verbal directions to prevent your partner from moving, handcuffs, a rope or a tie)
Would you ask your submissive (sub) to service you? (Examples could include giving you pleasure, a massage, telling you compliments)
Would you punish them if they were disobedient? If so, in what way?

Kink Personal Growth

10 ways to use kink for growth

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10 ways to use kink for growth

Do you think kink (BDSM) can aid at personal growth? Here are a few ways I’ve found kink play to be healing. Let me know your thoughts! Want BDSM specific guidance? DM xoxo

Bringing out the shadow
We all have a darker side to ourselves (so-called negative emotions, perhaps aggression, fear) – seeing it for what it is and exploring it safely and consensually during play may be fun and healing.

V Day_Spice+Love Ideas

Webinar: Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas – February 9

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Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas Webinar – February 9th, 11.00am

Are you looking for a few fun ways to spice up or deepen your relationship? Would you like to learn a variety of ways in which you can pleasure, surprise, entice your partner or communicate your desires to them? Join me for this 1.5h webinar (live or recorded) and open your mind as to what is possible in the vast web of human pleasure experiences.

Sex with Dr Jess podcast

Interview – Sex with Dr. Jess

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Listen to an Interview with me as I join the amazing Sex with Dr. Jess Podcast! During this soulfully wild podcast Jess and Brandon ask me a series of questions about kink, energy orgasms and multidimensional body scans! I even read a story on my very first kink party experience at a private dungeon! Absolutely loved our discussion! Thank you so much Jess and Brandon!

Open Relationships – Video

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Open Relationships – Video

We are all unique and deserve a unique solution when it comes to being in a relationship. Not many sources discuss it, but once you dig a bit deeper, the options are vast! Just spoke to someone yesterday and he’d mentioned how his whole life he has tried to follow the societal norms in so many areas of his life, but recently has arrived at a conclusion that he needs to choose his own path. For him it meant, experiencing polyamory.