So many of you who couldn’t make it to the Alice in Polyland party have asked to tell the tale
I’m happy to share some of the incredible things that our guests have enjoyed and explored. Of course privacy and anonymity are very important to us. I will therefore share the events in general terms and won’t mention any names or go into details with regards to personal experiences. Consider my story a three fantasy tale where reality and fantasy are intertwined 😉
The time has come for me to tell you all about a game I recently played with the Mystery Man: Letters Scavenger Hunt
This is a great idea to do if you’d like spice things up, add mystery, excitement and playfulness into your connection; as one of our core needs according to Esther Perel is to experience excitement / unpredictability and mystery! Please save this, like, tag and share with others.
Prepare a 5-6 letters, these could be organized and numbered according to a sequence in which you’d like your partner to find these or may just be scattered around the house:
First letter may be placed on a bed side table / underneath a pillow or given in person so that it’s easily found
The rest of the letters can be hidden around a house with hints on where to find them included in each of the letters or marked by visual identifiers (flowers) for better visual clues
Predicament bondage is a wonderfully playful concept that includes elements of restraint (use of rope, handcuffs, telling someone to hold still etc.) and psychological domination (play that affects you multidimensionally). Usually play ideas involve creating a scenario where someone is told to hold still (with or without restraints) and is teased or tormented in a way that encourages movement, forcing them to fight against that impulse.
Great Anniversary / Gift Book Idea
Want to create something special for your loved one? Thinking of surprising them with a fun date followed by a great take away present?
Here’s a fun idea that works very well: Sensual Book
One day I had an idea to create playful and sexy coupons to use with a partner… Today he’s planning on redeeming one of these ?
Guess which one it will be!
I’m always up for testing out various pleasure techniques 😉 This one got some rave reviews recently! Want to spice things up and learn this new fellatio trick? Read on
Here’s how to perform the grapefruit technique according to Thought Catalogue article:
1. Get a grapefruit. Preferably a ruby red grapefruit. A large navel orange can be substituted if a grapefruit is unavailable.
Some of you wanted to hear about my play idea last Saturday. This would work well for anyone who’d like to add more spice into play and change up your sensual routine, try out Domination / Submission ideas or wants to even out the field if one of the partners is feeling less up for play than the other. This can work well in person or long distance via video screen sharing.
This is a great idea to do if your partner is leaving for a trip, you’re in a long distance relationship or you’d just like to add a bit of playfulness to your relationship and leave these notes behind after your date in a mailbox or underneath a pillow. Please save this, like, tag and share with others.
“What is your deepest, darkest, most intimate fantasy?” I ask in a low, slow voice looking seductively into your eyes. We don’t openly talk about sex. We feel shame, guilt, fear around our sexuality and fantasies. If we shed some light onto this darkness – incredible sense of pleasure, freedom and joy appear. Trust me, I’ve been there and feel so much more alive. Share your fantasies with me. Together, let’s shine a bit of light into the darkness of your soul.
Me Incognito – Domination and Submission (excerpt from www.aliceinpolyland.com)
“Wear stockings and heels — no bra. You have perfect tits just as they are. I want you to embody your sensuality, and I want to feel it radiating from you. Do you understand? No perfume. I like the smell of a woman. Maybe everyone will smell your sex filling the room…”