The time has come for me to tell you all about a game I recently played with the Mystery Man: Letters Scavenger Hunt
This is a great idea to do if you’d like spice things up, add mystery, excitement and playfulness into your connection; as one of our core needs according to Esther Perel is to experience excitement / unpredictability and mystery! Please save this, like, tag and share with others.
Prepare a 5-6 letters, these could be organized and numbered according to a sequence in which you’d like your partner to find these or may just be scattered around the house:
First letter may be placed on a bed side table / underneath a pillow or given in person so that it’s easily found
The rest of the letters can be hidden around a house with hints on where to find them included in each of the letters or marked by visual identifiers (flowers) for better visual clues
Predicament bondage is a wonderfully playful concept that includes elements of restraint (use of rope, handcuffs, telling someone to hold still etc.) and psychological domination (play that affects you multidimensionally). Usually play ideas involve creating a scenario where someone is told to hold still (with or without restraints) and is teased or tormented in a way that encourages movement, forcing them to fight against that impulse.
From Mental to Playful Transitions
We all tend to be busy and often quite preoccupied during the day – work, errands, kids, parents – out day to day lives have a certain busy stress-filled rhythm. What does it take to transition into a slowed down, experiential, playful, sensual, sexual, creative and connective space with our lovers?
One day I had an idea to create playful and sexy coupons to use with a partner… Today he’s planning on redeeming one of these ?
Guess which one it will be!
I’m always up for testing out various pleasure techniques 😉 This one got some rave reviews recently! Want to spice things up and learn this new fellatio trick? Read on
Here’s how to perform the grapefruit technique according to Thought Catalogue article:
1. Get a grapefruit. Preferably a ruby red grapefruit. A large navel orange can be substituted if a grapefruit is unavailable.
10 ways to process emotions
Do you ever feel overcome by emotions? There are so many – typically the “negative ones” we tend to have an issue with experiencing / processing. In our culture we are not taught ways of identifying, allowing and accepting our feelings. The truth is while fear, sadness or anger may be very uncomfortable to experience, they are waves of energy passing over us. Below is a list of ideas I’ve compiled over the years on processing a range of negative emotions. What’s your favorite way to process?
This is a great idea to do if your partner is leaving for a trip, you’re in a long distance relationship or you’d just like to add a bit of playfulness to your relationship and leave these notes behind after your date in a mailbox or underneath a pillow. Please save this, like, tag and share with others.
Letting go of old painful patterns / relationships (D + R)
“To let go does not mean to get rid of. To let go means to let be. When we let be with compassion, things come and go on their own.” – Jack Kornfield
Do you have trouble disconnecting from the people you dated or loved? If so, you’re not alone. According to the attachment theory we all attach in various ways. Some are avoidant and tend to connect slowly and reluctantly. Others attach and detach with ease. Letting go for someone who has an anxious attachment style is especially hard.
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LEARNING TO MANAGE DIFFICULT EMOTIONS
“Unexpressed emotions will never die. They are buried alive and will come forth later in uglier ways.” — Sigmund Freud
… Pain. This familiar intense feeling of burning usually starts just below my navel, radiating up through my chest… Creating an excruciating pressing sensation between my breasts and moving up towards the throat. This energy – wanting to come out as a scream, a cry… Tears appearing and pouring out of my eyes. And another wave – covering me head to toe…