Things have been challenging lately, I know! If you’re struggling today – I’m sending you a big bear hug. Please remember that thoughts you may be struggling with right now may just be due to how you’re feeling. Notice whether these ideas are factual or just an emotional reaction to the current situation.
We live in a world of duality and therefore majority of concepts, actions, things are judged to be either bad or good. If we zoom out, however, they really just ARE. What would you like us as a world / society to stop judging / polarizing right now?
Questions to ask your lover to better understand their fantasies.
I hear from so many of you that talking about sex may feel difficult and intimidating. I notice how liberating and free my clients feel when we dive into their fantasies, sexual preferences without experiencing judgments, shame or guilt. Below are a few ideas on which questions to ask to get to know your partner’s fantasies a bit better. When this conversation is approached with an open mind in a judgement free space, results are miraculous.
Mind Sex: Practical Tips (excerpt from Alice in Polyland book available at www.aliceinpolyland.com)
The brain is our main sexual organ. To me, intellectual stimulation of someone, knowing all of their triggers and buttons; as well as an ability to play and weave these into visceral experiences,
is the highest level of sensual connection one can have. This and Energy Orgasms of course 😉
Managing Difficult Emotions, Three part Series. Part three. (Please read previous parts here: Part One & Part Two) 4. Processing Processing happens differently for different emotions and people Hitting a sofa with a pillow, having a temper tantrum on the floor when alone and ripping paper are great ways to release anger Crying and journaling work […]
Managing Difficult Emotions, Three part Series. Part two. (Part One can be found here) 1. Awareness Naming the emotions is an important part of understanding of what is happening to you and managing difficult emotions: “Inner Child technique” Notice if you could give a voice to the feelings you’re experiencing Can you sense/feel or […]
Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas Webinar – February 9th, 11.00am
Are you looking for a few fun ways to spice up or deepen your relationship? Would you like to learn a variety of ways in which you can pleasure, surprise, entice your partner or communicate your desires to them? Join me for this 1.5h webinar (live or recorded) and open your mind as to what is possible in the vast web of human pleasure experiences.
Holiday Celebration continues – Complimentary erotic Alice in PolyLand book pdf today only. Hi Lovely! Have you ever felt restricted or repressed in fully expressing who you are deep down inside at your very core? Perhaps, you’ve come from a conservative background where any expression of sexuality has been forbidden. Maybe, you’ve been in a […]
BDSM I know many of you are curious to learn more about kink / BDSM. There are so many misunderstandings and myths that surround these terms. Fears. Judgments. Fantasies. Shame. In the next two weeks, I’d like to shine some light onto this sexy shadow piece that may be part of many of our fantasies […]