Best Fantasies

Questions to ask lovers to best understand fantasies

Questions to ask your lover to better understand their fantasies.

I hear from so many of you that talking about sex may feel difficult and intimidating. I notice how liberating and free my clients feel when we dive into their fantasies, sexual preferences without experiencing judgments, shame or guilt. Below are a few ideas on which questions to ask to get to know your partner’s fantasies a bit better. When this conversation is approached with an open mind in a judgement free space, results are miraculous.

Mind Sex: Practical Tips

Mind Sex: Practical Tips (excerpt from Alice in Polyland book available at www.aliceinpolyland.com)

The brain is our main sexual organ. To me, intellectual stimulation of someone, knowing all of their triggers and buttons; as well as an ability to play and weave these into visceral experiences,
is the highest level of sensual connection one can have. This and Energy Orgasms of course 😉

Managing Difficult Emotions: P3

Managing Difficult Emotions, Three part Series. Part three. (Please read previous parts here: Part One & Part Two) 4. Processing Processing happens differently for different emotions and people Hitting a sofa with a pillow, having a temper tantrum on the floor when alone and ripping paper are great ways to release anger Crying and journaling work […]

Managing Difficult Emotions

Managing Difficult Emotions: P2

Managing Difficult Emotions, Three part Series. Part two. (Part One can be found here) 1. Awareness Naming the emotions is an important part of understanding of what is happening to you and managing difficult emotions:   “Inner Child technique” Notice if you could give a voice to the feelings you’re experiencing Can you sense/feel or […]

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Webinar: Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas – February 9

Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas Webinar – February 9th, 11.00am

Are you looking for a few fun ways to spice up or deepen your relationship? Would you like to learn a variety of ways in which you can pleasure, surprise, entice your partner or communicate your desires to them? Join me for this 1.5h webinar (live or recorded) and open your mind as to what is possible in the vast web of human pleasure experiences.

Holiday Giveaway

Complimentary Alice in PolyLand Book pdf

Holiday Celebration continues – Complimentary erotic Alice in PolyLand book pdf today only. Hi Lovely! Have you ever felt restricted or repressed in fully expressing who you are deep down inside at your very core? Perhaps, you’ve come from a conservative background where any expression of sexuality has been forbidden. Maybe, you’ve been in a […]

BDSM – Intro

BDSM I know many of you are curious to learn more about kink / BDSM. There are so many misunderstandings and myths that surround these terms. Fears. Judgments. Fantasies. Shame. In the next two weeks, I’d like to shine some light onto this sexy shadow piece that may be part of many of our fantasies […]

Connection: Partner – Communications

Non-Violent Communications

It’s so interesting that the same occurrence could be seen from so many different perspectives. Each of us lives in our own universe and communication is the key to letting others know what we think and feel inside our own bubbles.

I love Non-violent communications method (by Marshall B. Rosenberg) as it allows for the most objective way of handling disagreements. It also insures that people hear each other out and exchange ideas, feelings and state what they need in a non defensive way.

Connection: Partner – Love Languages

Love Languages At times, while arguing with our loved ones it may seem that we’re speaking completely different languages… According to a marriage counsellor Dr. Gary Chapman, there are 5 love languages people usually speak. These are: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Knowing your main love language […]