10 ways to use kink for growth
Do you think kink (BDSM) can aid at personal growth? Here are a few ways I’ve found kink play to be healing. Let me know your thoughts! Want BDSM specific guidance? DM xoxo
Bringing out the shadow
We all have a darker side to ourselves (so-called negative emotions, perhaps aggression, fear) – seeing it for what it is and exploring it safely and consensually during play may be fun and healing.
Quick reminder that Clitoris has 8000 nerve endings and is built solely for pleasure! Did you know that the visible, external portion of the clitoris is just “the tip of the iceberg”? Approximately 3/4 of the clitoris is externally hidden! It is way more than we think – more than just a little pink button. […]
New ways to spice up relationships – workshop aftermath
Had a blast at the Saturday morning breakfast workshop with incredible women! We’ve had an incredibly open and candid discussion on sexuality, relationships, ways to add more spice in and quite a few practical ideas / tools to try out at home! Look forward to hearing all about it 😉
Share fantasies with no judgement (even if you’re not sharing your partner’s enthusiasm about having a threesome, be open to listen and see how you can creatively aid at bringing it to life (dirty talk, fantasy, flirting etc.))
Dirty talk and sext – so much fun, isn’t it! (especially if photos don’t end up in dance mom’s forum by mistake yikes)
Come out to a sexy party (sex clubs, kink parties – ping me for a guided tour offer)
Take a spicy workshop together (so many fun things you could learn together or separately!! I’m offering two this weekend!)
“You are something that the whole Universe is doing, in the same way that a wave is something that the whole ocean is doing.” Alan Watts
Hot off the virtual press – have you seen today’s newsletter yet? Are you part of Spirit Sex Lab family? Come and join our playful laboratory where we discover everything personal growth, pleasure and desire related. Imagine my account would get blocked and you’d never hear from me again I’d miss you terribly!
Some people don’t kiss and tell and then there’s me lol Sharing my whole poly journey with you guys 😉 Ok, mostly highlights and yes – all names and some of the visual characteristics changed for privacy reasons. But still – 99.99% real life stories 😉 (more at www.aliceinpolyland.com)
We will go over many pleasure increasing tips and ideas on adding more spice in, speak about an incredible clitoris (spoiler alert: it’s a lot more than just a small little button), cover G-spot and squirting stimulation techniques (some background information can be found here: https://www.spiritsexlab.com/2018/02/20/squirting-g-spot-orgasms-2/), go over Cervical orgasms and touch upon Energy Orgasms, energy centers and ways to move our energy (Here’s a bit of a background info on what energy orgasms are all about: https://www.spiritsexlab.com/2018/03/02/spiritual-connection-energetic-orgasms/)
Valentines Day Spice + Love Ideas Webinar – February 9th, 11.00am
Are you looking for a few fun ways to spice up or deepen your relationship? Would you like to learn a variety of ways in which you can pleasure, surprise, entice your partner or communicate your desires to them? Join me for this 1.5h webinar (live or recorded) and open your mind as to what is possible in the vast web of human pleasure experiences.
“The more a thing tends to be permanent, the ore it tends to be lifeless.”
Alan Watts
Have you noticed this? It is so interesting… As Esther Perel says – humans beings have two opposing needs:
First need is for security and safety, consistency and predictability
Second, and quite the opposite – for novelty, excitement and unpredictability