Spirit Sex Lab newsletter – November, 2019
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BDSM I know many of you are curious to learn more about kink / BDSM. There are so many misunderstandings and myths that surround these terms. Fears. Judgments. Fantasies. Shame. In the next two weeks, I’d like to shine some light onto this sexy shadow piece that may be part of many of our fantasies […]
Many of you have reached out and asked how the Sex Club tour went… Well, let me tell you all about it – I invite you to sit down and get popcorn – the story is spicy!
Enslaved Goddess – a story written by Mystique – taking place live on November 2nd!
In a land far far away, a couple (Mystique & her partner Theo) had been travelling through the foreign lands and now have gotten lost. After wandering for three days without seeing a soul and crossing a mountain range, they came across a valley with a little town, secluded from the rest of the outside world. This town was unlike anything that Mystique has ever seen before: peculiarly dressed people, strange animals, strange plants, and peculiar looking houses. These local people were advanced in every way, and creative, liberal, and “free” in their way of life.
“Miracles come in moments. Be ready and willing.”
Wayne Dyer
So very true. Whenever you’re lost in anxious thoughts, please notice that the turmoil is usually mostly happening between your temples… The life itself is flowing effortlessly and graciously all around us with a multitude of miracles taking place everywhere. Taking a deep breath, witnessing the thoughts and allowing the emotions to be here without a judgement is a great way to experience the now. Comment: what miracles have you noticed today 😉
Non-Violent Communications
It’s so interesting that the same occurrence could be seen from so many different perspectives. Each of us lives in our own universe and communication is the key to letting others know what we think and feel inside our own bubbles.
I love Non-violent communications method (by Marshall B. Rosenberg) as it allows for the most objective way of handling disagreements. It also insures that people hear each other out and exchange ideas, feelings and state what they need in a non defensive way.
Love Languages At times, while arguing with our loved ones it may seem that we’re speaking completely different languages… According to a marriage counsellor Dr. Gary Chapman, there are 5 love languages people usually speak. These are: Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, Receiving Gifts, Acts of Service, and Physical Touch. Knowing your main love language […]
5 Senses : Practice So remember yesterday’s post on senses – have you figured out your most favourite ones? Now it’s time to put the theory into practice… TIP: Separate giving and receiving and go through experiencing each other one sense at a time… As a long and sensual foreplay. Dance, strip, blind fold and […]
5 Senses I love being playful… Do you? Spicy relationships are hugely connected to a sense of novelty… Surprises. Play. Speaking of play – do you know what your primary sense is? How about your partner’s? TIP: Try contemplating on your sensual preferences, they may enhance your connection with a loved one. What comes to […]
Relationship Spice: Connection Distractions
A few days ago a great friend and client of mine has asked me a question: “How do I make a transition from regular life into a sexier setting with my husband and leave the thoughts and distractions behind?”
It is quite hard for us to stop our busy minds from constantly focusing on outside worries, to do lists, business considerations. Moreover, when we do find the precious time to connect with the loved ones we tend to slip into thoughts that are less than sexy. Does this sound familiar?
In this video, I’m suggesting 5 practical steps on how to approach Relationship Distractions and deepen the spicy / loving connection between the partners. Watch “Relationships: Connection Distractions” on my Youtube channel at www.youtube.com/c/spiritsexlab and let me know if you find these suggestions helpful.