BDSM – Authenticity

Road to Authenticity Many of us were raised in a sex-negative, restrictive culture. Some of us are still associating sensuality with feelings of guilt and shame. We all have sexual fantasies that we might be afraid to act on, play we’d like to try, pleasure we’d like to experience. Road to authenticity and freedom starts […]

BDSM – Sadism & Masochism

Sadism and Masochism “…He takes a flogger and gently plays with her body. Caressing her nipples, abs, thighs, labia, getting into faster and stronger rhythmical movements. She closes her eyes and takes all of the sensations in. He works with his touch, words and as a pinnacle of the experience turns on the vibrator. She […]

BDSM – Dominance & Submission

DOMINANCE & SUBMISSION “… Open your eyes”, – he directed. She obeyed. “Good girl” he said with a smile. “Wow”, she thought to herself, “How dare he call me a good girl”. A Goddess in her was enraged. But she said NOTHING. A Prey in her seemed to enjoy this type of treatment… “Open”, – […]

BDSM – Bondage & Discipline

Bondage & Discipline “…He was playing with the energy of this rope scene, slowly running it on top of her breasts, between her legs, brushing the rope against her throat. Soon, she started going into a deep state of trans. Nothing else mattered to her – just the movement of his hands, sensation of the […]

BDSM – Intro

BDSM I know many of you are curious to learn more about kink / BDSM. There are so many misunderstandings and myths that surround these terms. Fears. Judgments. Fantasies. Shame. In the next two weeks, I’d like to shine some light onto this sexy shadow piece that may be part of many of our fantasies […]

BDSM fantasy play info/guidance (sensation play, power exchanges, bondage etc.)

BDSM fantasy play info/guidance (sensation play, power exchanges, bondage etc.) Remember childhood play? That abundant feeling of freedom, joy, excitement and playful mischief? This is what BDSM feels like only for adults. 50 Shades of Gray has only shown us a limited (in my opinion non consensual and borderline abusive) way of playing with Domination, […]

Relationship Types (Monogamy, Open, Polyamory, Swinging, BDSM Partners)

Relationship Types (Monogamy, Open, Polyamory, Swinging, BDSM Partners) If you’ve read some of my posts, you probably know that I’m a huge proponent of individuality. I believe we are all truly unique and beautiful. The differences among us allow up to shine our gifts into this world and make it vibrantly colorful. I feel the […]

BDSM Play Lab

Want to play a little game? Given: sensual rope, collar, paddle, nipple clamps and Wartenbeeg wheel Please tell me the spiciest fantasy you can come up with using 2+ elements from above ?? Extra points for bringing this to life with your partner tonight 🙂  

Squirting G Spot Orgasms

Squirting  G spot orgasms (to learn more join my webinar tonight at 7pm: www.spiritsexlab.com/events) I remember one day; I became very curious about wanting to experience Squirting and G Spots orgasms… As usual – when I have the goal to achieve I try to focus on it as much as I can 😉 I set […]