Q & A: Sex Club, Identities

Question: Do people usually use their real names at these places? Or fake names? Or completely anonymous (don’t ask?) If we like a couple and want to get in touch with them later for more fun, is it OK to ask for contact info?

Answer: Thank you so much for your question – please see my answer below (Join my Exclusive Upcoming Sex Club Tour, June 24 for a safe and fun way to explore this alternative community: https://spiritsexlab.as.me/sexclubtour).

Scene names are quite popular at kink parties and sexuality related events. For example, my scene name is Alice in Polyland or simply Alice (because of my exploration in polyamory). As part of a fun exercise during our Meet and Greet Exclusive Guided Sex Club tour discussion I usually recommend thinking of an AlterEgo you’d like to embrace at a club.

It is completely appropriate to ask for people’s names and contact information if you feel you’ve connected and would like to keep in touch outside of the club’s walls. Many great friendships start at wonderful inclusive events as folks are very open minded, non judgemental and wonderful all around.

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