Do you feel like you’re hiding a secret from everyone? If so, you’re not alone! Many clients I connect with feel that there’s something wrong with them. Deep down inside we’re all afraid that we deviate from the norm.

And what is norm anyways? If we’re all so unique, could there really be a set of perfectly outlined, agreed upon norms? Or is it more like a spectrum? I love guidelines that are used in kink play: CSS: Consensual, Safe and Sane. I believe as long as three of these parameters are met, anything we feel or do is OK. Thoughts?