BDSM

I know many of you are curious to learn more about kink / BDSM. There are so many misunderstandings and myths that surround these terms. Fears. Judgments. Fantasies. Shame.

In the next two weeks, I’d like to shine some light onto this sexy shadow piece that may be part of many of our fantasies and dreams. Want to learn more? Join my webinar and Kink Guided Tour (more info at www.spiritsexlab.com/events). Please comment, share and like for better visibility!

 BDSM – a four letter word… Hesitation, bewilderment, fear, shame, excitement, references to “50 Shades of Gray” are some of the reactions I receive when I mention BDSM (or Kink) to others.

A few years ago I first started my journey into this fantasy land called BDSM. Playful kingdom of darkness and light. Heroes’ journey towards finding my own voice, authenticity and abundant pleasure… Breaking the barriers of well constructed societal norms and replacing them with the freedom of choice, artistic expression and personal growth.

What is BDSM you ask? The acronym stands for: Bondage & Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism and Masochism.

BDSM is a vast playground that is only confined by your imagination and creativity. BDSM could also be compared to an element like water or fire. It could be extremely freeing, passionate, playful and pleasurable. Yet, since we live in the duality, it may also be harmful if approached incorrectly.

BDSM is a type of adult play that is creative, sensual and consensual, devious, playful and intense. Sexuality is not always part of BDSM, but when it is – it’s sexuality on steroids…

From my experience, BDSM has a potential to also enhance dimensions beyond physical – including mental, emotional and spiritual planes.

In the next few days, I will post more in-depth explanations of main components of the BDSM acronym as well as some of the excerpts from erotic stories written by me.