“Could I stimulate someone’s non-erogenous zone, but attribute a sexual meaning to the act?”
Have you tried it? The power of suggestion… I’ve written about it in Alice in Polyland book… For example, using a power of suggestion one could playfully ‘penetrate’ the crease between their partner’s fingers using their hands, pencil or anything else and suggest a sexual meaning. Share your ideas, try it for yourself. Please let me know how it goes!