Psychotherapy, Healing School and Search of Self
I’ve been married for 24 years. I know… almost unheard of these days, isn’t it?
My husband is amazingly awesome and yet I’d find myself falling in love and in lust with others at an alarming frequency… I didn’t act on these feelings as we were monogamous, but I remember talking to one of my friends about this one day. She’d mention that there must’ve been something wrong with me, since married people were not supposed to be interested in others. Or if they were – it just wasn’t a true love. Have you heard this one before?!
Naturally, I started searching within and questioning myself. That was when I’ve embarked on an amazing journey of self exploration and personal growth. I’ve started working with a wonderful psychotherapist and went to one of world’s best Energy Healing and Personal Transformation schools.
I’ve learned so much from him and till this day I feel extremely grateful for all he’s taught me. In our four amazing years together I’ve grown quite a bit and we’ve become pretty good friends. He used to come out to my art exhibitions (I have fine arts background), we’d collaborate on his therapy projects… One day it came out, rather by accident, or perhaps it has gotten too obvious to hide, that he was feeling counter transference towards me (in other words, he had developed feelings and a physical attraction).
And that’s when the light has come off. I realized that there was NOTHING WRONG WITH ME. OR HIM (he was also married). OR ANY OF US.
Sex at dawn speaks at length on matters of polyamory and mentions that only 3% of mammals are monogamous. Therefore, if you ever feel attracted to others while in a loving relationship, it only is natural. Many people make monogamy work very well for them, others choose ‘monogamish’ option, open relationship models, swinging, play partnerships or polyamory. Sky really is the limit! You can design your relationships any way you see fit.
This realization has started a new chapter in my life – final recognition that I, indeed, was polyamorous by nature! And that’s precisely why, I have created “Alice in PolyLand” book ( wwwtinyurl.com/y22pre2p) – an Inspirational guide on transformational sensual journey from shame & suppression to unsurpassed passion, pleasure & authenticity.
With it, I want to normalize polyamory, sexuality, and help people break down the barriers inside and rediscover amazing passion, breathtaking sex and ultimate joy of embracing your full self. Please get your copy today and support this soulfully sexy project! I’m just over 100% and now raising to bring even more sexy and open vibes into the world and create eLearning courses based on the topics covered inside the book.