“Chemistry is you touching my mind and it setting my body on fire.”
I love the sexual play that starts in our minds. Touching someone’s fantasy world, distilling the essence of their desires, needs, wants and turn ons. Knowing your own preferences and dreams is great. Communicating with your partner about these – awesome. Playing out hidden desires, using dirty talk in an imaginative way could be an excellent way to:
- Explore our fantasies (for example you could create a threesome story and play it out loud with your lover while staying true to your relationship model which may not allow others to join in)
- Heal our past wounds (you could play out a scenario that includes scenes of vulnerability, explore your fears and pains in a loving environment)
- Have amazing foreplay that lasts for hours / days (incorporating sexy messages, dirty talk and covert public play using words that spark fires between you two)
How do you like your mind touched?