“You not wanting me was the beginning of me wanting myself.” Nayyirah Waheed

Are you there to pick yourself up if something hurtful happens to you? When life gets out of balance, do you bring yourself down with self hate or lift yourself up with self love? At times it’s hard to find dysfunctional, immature parts of ourselves. However, I notice that when I find myself lovable, I can start healing these wounded parts of myself. Additionally, other people feel this energy and are attracted to it. Tell me, how do you pick yourself up?